My stepfather had been part of my life since I was four years old. After my mother died, he stayed and became the only dad I had ever truly known. Then, only hours before he passed away, he clutched my hand and whispered, “I’ve lied to you your entire life.” He handed me an address, and what I discovered there forced me to see my entire childhood—and him—differently.
“The pancakes were always shaped like stars,” I told the nurse.
She was smoothing the light blanket over Frank’s legs, moving carefully around the tubes disappearing beneath his hospital gown.
“Even when I was 35 years old, married, and bringing my own daughter over for breakfast, he’d still pull out that ridiculous little metal cutter.”
Frank opened his eyes.
He had spent most of the afternoon with them closed, breathing in shallow, uneven rhythms, but now his gaze settled directly on me.
For a moment, I waited for that familiar uneven smile.
Instead, tears gathered in his eyes.
I moved closer to the bed.
“Dad?”
His mouth formed a word, but nothing came out.
“Are you in pain?”
He shook his head.
The nurse glanced at the monitor before gently touching my shoulder.
“I’ll give you two some time.”
When she stepped out, I reached for the damp cloth on the bedside table and carefully laid it across Frank’s forehead.
“You know, those pancakes weren’t even very good,” I said, hoping to draw him back into the memory. “They were always burned around the points.”
A soft breath escaped him, almost like a laugh.
“You still ate them,” he said.
“Of course I ate them. I was afraid you’d make me eat oatmeal if I complained.”
Frank had married my mother when I was four.
In the beginning, I refused to call him anything.
Not Frank.
Not Dad.
Nothing at all.
If he asked whether I wanted toast, I simply pointed toward the bread.
If he offered to read to me before bed, I disappeared beneath the covers.
My biological father had vanished before I was old enough to remember him, and even at four, I had already learned not to trust men who arrived carrying luggage.
Frank never forced his way into my life.
He discovered that I liked strawberry jam spread right to the edges of my toast.
During thunderstorms, he sat in the hallway outside my room because I would not allow him inside.
And every Sunday morning, he made apple pancakes, using an old metal cutter to shape them into stars.
One morning, nearly three months after he married my mother, I wandered into the kitchen and accidentally called him Dad.
Frank dropped the spatula.
Neither of us acknowledged what had happened.
He only placed the pancake with the fewest burned edges onto my plate.
Five months later, my mother died.
A brain aneurysm took her so suddenly that my final ordinary memory of her was a conversation about whether I had put away my shoes.
Our house quickly filled with relatives.
They spoke quietly in hallways, glancing toward Frank whenever they believed I was not paying attention.
“He isn’t her real father.”
“Her aunt could take her.”
“He’ll want to start over.”
The night after the funeral, I curled beneath the kitchen table with my knees against my chest.
Frank found me there shortly before dawn.
Continue reading on the next page →
To see the full cooking instructions, go to the next page or click the Open button (>) and don't forget to SHARE it with your friends on Facebook.
